Archive for December 2011

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Dec. 13, 2011

As early as age 4, Wyatt Maines asked his mother, “When do I get to be a girl?” And he told his father he hated his penis.

Wyatt always liked girl’s clothes and movies, while his twin brother Jonas played with traditional boy toys.

Born identical twins, the siblings share the same DNA, but their gender identification took divergent paths. Now, at age 14, they are brother and sister, as Wyatt’s transition to Nicole is well under way.

Nicole is 5-feet, 1-inch tall and 100 pounds; her twin brother is 5-feet, 6-inches and weighs 115 pounds — and they are best friends.

Their story — marked by tearful emotions, bullying at their first school and eventually a lawsuit and a move to a different town — was chronicled in the Boston Globe on Sunday.

Their parents, Wayne and Kelly Maines, said they brought their transgender daughter into the spotlight in the hopes that their story might shed light on the struggle of others.

“We sat down with our kids at the breakfast table when they were 9 and talked about fear, hate, evil and freedom of speech before sending them to school,” their father, Wayne Maines, 52, wrote in an email to

“I was very angry and sad to have to talk to our small children in this manner,” he said. “We also told them to keep their heads-up, be proud and take care of each other and their friends. I am very proud of them both because they have not forgotten that lesson and they continue to help others whenever it is safe to do so.” ... Read the full story here…

Whoopsie! The party has been moved to this week. Welp that is, in less than 24 hours….. Sorry about the confusion.

Hey there youth! Our holiday party will be this Thursday- December 22, 2011.

Bring a homemade/ white elephant gift valued $5 or less for the Dirty Santa gift exchange.
I can’t wait to see what everyone brings!

Meeting as usual

At the usual place.
First Unitarian Church – Youth Room (front left side)
600 NW 13th Street (at Dewey)
Oklahoma City, OK 73103

Also heads up- we will be changing the weekly meeting time in January. We will still meet on Thursdays, but we will now be meeting from 6:00 pm to 8:00 pm.

A beautiful video, about love… warm your heart with this, this holiday season.